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I have just moved in with my partner who is working 36 hours and I don't work due to depression and back problems. Am I entitled to help with money?

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John Doe Profile
John Doe answered

Yes, you need to contribute....depression and back problems? You've just described 90% of the work force.....ahem.

Skip  Gentry Profile
Skip Gentry answered

Yes, you should help out financially, nobody gets to live for free.

Sheldon  Cooper Profile
Sheldon Cooper answered

Go get your own place and see how long you make it with no $

Get up, get a job, stand on your own two feet, and stop leaching off another.

Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

I think the word you are looking for is "obligated" not entitled. You are not entitled to move in with someone and not contribute anything to running the household.

You are, however, obligated to help. You can get meds and therapy to help with depression; and your doctor can suggest exercises for your bad back.

I've had a bad back for years; now I have an office job where I don't have to do a lot of lifting. Call center work requires a pleasant voice and patience and no lifting.  There are jobs that you can get that are not going to damage your back.

So, help your partner out and get busy helping. You'll feel better when you are contributing to the household, which will help with your depression.

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

You moved in without discussing the finances beforehand? Yea, this relationship is going to last. (eye roll) Honestly, if you are going to move in with someone there are ground rules that need to be discussed before anyone moves so much as a shirt into a closet. Finances and household chores are at the top of the list. Yes, you need to contribute financially. If you have no money do to so, than you need to make up for it in household up keep.

Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

Help with money from whom?

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